Men who lives like guests of home or are talkative outdoors or take no responsibilities indoors or blame others are ones causing partners to want divorce from.
Getting married, a woman hopes her home to be a happy place where both love each other ever and ever. However, it is not always that a wife looks at her husband with overwhelming love or with admiration as much as before. Some time in life, she is so tired of her husband that she does not want to be home and that she wants a divorce. Then the husband does not know what makes his wife tired of himself. Let’s have a look at cases below to make sure you do not happen to be one of the types.
I-don’t-care men
This man type is “I don’t hear – I don’t see – I don’t know”. They make their partners feel that they are not their husbands. They don’t be around when their wives are in need. The husbands even don’t know where their wives are, what they are doing, what they want. They leave everything to their wives and they acts as if they were just a guest in houses.
Conservative men
This type of person almost never listens to opinions of others, especially his wife and children. They always considered their opinion is right. But when they are wrong they blame circumstances and do not admit that they themselves make mistakes. This type always makes others feel inhibited and inequitable in the relationship. So, if you are a conservative husband, do not wonder why there are times when the wife does not want to argue with you anymore. The reason is not because she respects you but because your wife is depressed, tired, and do not even want to say anything.
Easier-said-than-done men
This is so-called Mr.Just-Talk. He boasts about so many things or make others think that he is a responsible man. He could be worried about others but he just boasts with nothing done because “easier said than done”. As a result, wife of such man does not rely on him. However, he is admired by a lot of people for what is heard from him.
A messy man
This man cannot plan and resolve a lot of problems in family. Just imagine what if a busy wife have to take care of babies and do the housework and even be worried about your being messy. The mess in this idea includes the fact that a man always cause problems to family, for example he has another child with other woman. This kind of man easily makes his wife tired of him. It is reasonable.
A man without working for progress and goals
This man is the one who is easily satisfied about everything and does not want to give efforts for big goals. While others goes to classes to learn or to seminars and meetings to look for progress, this kind avoids them. This man kind often leave better position to those who struggle for it. If you are of the kind, you will find that your wife who has to be pregnant, give birth and take care of children always tries to manage for better life and job while you stay still at a very same position for ages. You will also find that your partner do not really want a lot of money or a high position in the society from you but she asks you for progressing and overcoming to be better.
A man of alcohol abuse or of gambling
Some pints of beer with friend are not a big problem but being drunk all the time and being home with unkempt hair and staggers are insufferable.
Similarly speaking, a wife will want to divorce if you are addictive to gabling.
Do not ever think that making a happy family is women’s duties. If you do it without having responsibilites for family and above all for your own life, you ruin your own family.
Psychologist Ha Linh
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